Hi, I'm new to your site and would love some advice on some pics for pp. I'm intermediate in Photoshop and am self taught. I am working with CS3. My ulitmate goal it to learn all I can and to impove my skills.
I took photos at my FIL's wedding that was on a boat. The lighting was a huge challenge, blown out hightlights in background (!!), etc. Many of the pictures came out underexposed and some were too blurry (I was just getting familiar with my new digital camera in manual mode at the time). I would like to give them some pics for memory's sake. Many came out very well, but many came out like the pic attached.
I don't think these look natural enough and would love to know how I can pp better. I used a noise ware, then sharpened (just a little) with high pass (wish I hadn't at all). Didn't like it so, additionally (probably a mistake) adjusted with USM. I did all the regular things like adjusting curves and colors, took out the horrible light reflections on her arm (which are in almost every pic). I've gotten really good at cloning them out.

Also, I don't know how, but I lost resolution and the conversions are all 96 dpi. I used jpeg and kept them at 300 dpi. When and how the heck did that happen!!!!??
I think this pic looks too plastic and here are my examples. The last is probably what I would go with. I added an action that gives it more of a glow and cleans up the skin a little. I don't know, I need a pro's opinion!!
Can I do a better job?
Thanks for any help!! I have many to work on, this is only an example but a pic that I know they would want to have.
#1. SOOC (straight out of camera).
#2. My pp.
#3. BW conversion (Terrible!!)it tho.
#4. Added a soft action.