Joe, welcome to RetouchPro!
What usually works best to get some good input for a question is to upload your image -- Tips on Attaching Files or Images to Threads or Posts are located here:
http://www.retouchpro.com/forums/image-help/7933-attaching-files-images-threads-posts.html
If you tell us which photo editing program you're trying to learn, and how far you've gotten so far, it can help folks figure out how to explain it (Photoshop uses some different terms than
PSP, Elements works a bit differently in some areas, etc.
A typical way of "opening eyes" is to add open eyes from another photo of the subject, or from a relative whose eyes look much the same -- this can include selecting the new eye and moving it over the old closed eye and then making it look like it was never done. There are a number of posts on this website where this has been done on other people's photos -- with eyes, ears, noses, etc. You can do a search for "replace eye" or similar term to see what else you can find, but I'll start you off with a few links here:
[oh, if you run into the thread where Craig (Kraellin) threatens to pull out his cattle prod, just relax -- he still hasn't used it

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http://tinyurl.com/bzhvx (it was a long link title, so I "Tinyurled" it.)
http://tinyurl.com/dvspc http://www.retouchpro.com/forums/sho...t=replace+eyes
From a very early post on this site --
By Doug Nelson (doug) on Saturday, May 26, 2001 - 08:26 pm:
Note:
Copying and flipping an eye is an excellent way to replace a missing or damaged section, but there's one thing you have to watch for: the highlights or specular reflection. In this case it wouldn't matter, but in more closeup images if you simply flip the eye without fixing the highlight there will be a kind of wall-eyed effect. So, flip the eye, but further go in and flip the iris with the highlight.
Tutorial on enhancing eyes rather than replacing them -- but has some good info that may relate:
http://retouchpro.com/tutorials/?m=show&id=61