I tried to reply to this thread, but when my reply got to be 4 pages long, I decided not to post it.
What is feminism?? I don't think anyone really knows. I've always been a social misfit and feminism was just one more of those movements that I was excluded from.
Early in my working life, I had some success in bringing about changes to the working conditions of my fellow (mostly female) co-workers. My efforts, no matter how successful served to further isolate me from the main stream, presumably because one never knew when I might mount a soapbox and try to bring about changes to the status quo.
I did my best work before the word "feminist" was coined; when the term was becoming popular, I was not invited to join the movement and my efforts have long since been forgotten and the changes I was part of introducing have since been attributed to the feminist movement.
During the height of the feminist movement, I was a single parent living in a housing complex with other single parents 99% of whom were female. At that time, there was a "feminist" publication which was delivered free of charge to certain areas of the city - but was not delivered to the complex where I lived. I called the publisher to complain and I was told that residents of our complex were not in the demographic that the magazine wished to influence. I can only assume we were not feminine enough???
When you figure out what feminism is, let me know
Margaret