Make-up on little kids

[Rexx]

Originally Posted by G. Couch

I think someone looking at our culture from the outside would be, as Paulie said above, "horrified"...and yet we view things with a detached and almost amused perspective. I'd argue that the whole make-up / pageant thing is indicative of a much deeper problem with our society (which you have already alluded to)...we are like the Roman Empire right before things got really decadent and came crumbling down.

You couldn't have said it better. I'm one of those looking on from the outside, and my reaction and thoughts are exactly what you are voicing here. This may very well be the end.

I really came here because of this thread Odd request for help? where I found it improper to answer. Courtney and Vikki used "disturbing" and "scary". May I add "repulsive".

[Chip Hildreth]

This is long...

Just my views on children and makeup and, uh... dogs, not all related to retouching. They are also conflicting ideas and I can't necessarily resolve them. Life is that way for me. This also rambles on so read for curiosity, not edification. ...if you want.


I have a six year old daughter in dance school. She loves dancing and performing and pretty much sings all day long whether anyone's listening or not. For her recitals and recital pictures, the dance school requires specific makeup styling... this weekend actually, I HAVE TO APPLY IT as her Mom won't be there for the photos. (I'm a commercial photographer by the way so I know a little bit about cosmetic styling but it galls me to make up my daughter for another (portrait) photographer.)

Anyway, it makes me flinch when I see my daughter made up for these recitals and I can't wait for her to take it off... but she loves it. She's into Brittany Spears, the Cheetah Girls, Barbie and the like and she is all girl. I used to believe this was a nurture thing but now I believe it to be predominantly nature. She has always been encouraged to try just about anything, soccer, tree climbing, lego, blablabla.
So, the upshot of that is, I like my little girl as her natural self but she likes to mimic the hyper-doll, supermodel types and I generally don't discourage it... I don't discourage her from playing with trucks and swords either but then, she never wants to play with trucks and swords. Her step-sister, also six, likes trucks and swords, so does her brother... go figure.

When we shoot fashion, we bring in a pro stylist and the models, male or female, always look completely different when they are made up. In person they look downright plastic. Make-up styling is really interesting and technically sophisticated; it facinates me. Seeing an adult made up doesn't trigger a flinch... but then, they aren't my daughter or son either.
I prefer my wife without makeup but we've done a couple of glamour shoots with her in the studio and in comes the stylist. The pictures simply look better. I shoot her candidly and those shots are better with no make-up. Like I said, conflicted.

Now, about pagents. To me, trying to pick the 'best' or 'most beautiful' person, kid or otherwise is absurd. It's like trying to pick a 'best' sunset or 'best' song. It's different for different people at different times. Subjective competition is just a continuation of the popularity thing that starts in elementary school... I hate it. It would seem to me that by placing your child in such a competition is a setup for heartbreak.

About Glamming photos professionally. With people, I've not gone further than removing blemishes and retouching eye highlights.
With dogs... now, with dogs, show dogs that is... I've done a fair amount of glamming in Photoshop. I've got a collection of hairbrushes, custom photoshop brushes for retouching dog hair, like you wouldn't believe. I mean, you can't exactly retouch a Poodle with a brush made for Briards.
Show dog owners are indeed normal people who, when it comes to their dogs, radically transform into the characters in the movie Best in Show. That is not an exageration. They do not have limits with respect to making a dog look like they think it ought to look. My biggest paying retouch jobs are dog show magazine ads... 10 hours at $75 per is typical. These are not ads for stud by the way, they are just ads, one or two full pages typically, just to expose a particular dog to the judges repeatedly. It's amazing! Ad expenses for a champion dog run over $2000 per month. I'm told some owners with multiple champion dogs spend well over $50,000 per month advertising in several magazines every month.
...I don't flinch, I give the customer what they want.

If you are a retoucher and a customer wants you to glam an eight year old, human or dog, you shouldn't flinch; you should give them what they want. The ethics are up to them. You are a musician playing an instrument, the audience picks the song. That is the difference between pro and amateur, the market. Amateurs get to do what they want and love to do, their creations are not market driven. Pro's do what the customer wants them to do, they do what the market leads them to do.

[Rexx]

Hi Chip,

This was ... interesting. I've just "come from" a thread in another forum where the person who started the thread was in my - and most other members' - opinion simply wrong, and was unable to see any other point of view than his own.

Why do I start off like that? Because I'd like to say "I understand everything you write, and sympathize", but that statement sounds so hollow to me right now.

Originally Posted by Chip Hildreth

Pro's do what the customer wants them to do, they do what the market leads them to do.

This is the only statement where I beg to differ. It is actually possible to say to a customer "I do not want your business. Please go somewhere else." I know; I have done it. I'm also fully aware that it's nice to be able to eat

Dog brushes - WOW!

[Chip Hildreth]

Thank you and I actually agree with your disagreement.

I wasn't so much trying make a statement about professionals only doing it a certain way or to say that one would never turn down work on principle.

It's pretty interesting because I had included a statement about non-professional retouchers often being more skillful than pros because they are doing what they enjoy and are motivated by more than money... but I deleted it because the post was just too long already.

Shifting from amateur photographer to professional has degraded my motivation and ability to shoot for personal enjoyment. The show dog work is interesting because of the challenge as well as the money. I get personal satisfaction from understanding the wants and needs of a client and then engineering a solution to give it to them. I view it as a skill in itself which I work to develop. Customers are tricky! For me, it's THE major difference in photography for pleasure and photography for hire.

If a client asked me to shoot a glammed up kid for a pagent image I think I would hesitate, quote a high, high rate and, if they were still game, I would do the shoot. Basically expecting them to pay me more for doing work that I don't like. I still believe the ethical question is ultimately in their hands.

I'm not wealthy and money is a motivating factor.
Again, a conflict I can't readily resolve.

Briard brushes are the most fun...

Take care.

[grafx]

Originally Posted by Chip Hildreth

I'm not wealthy and money is a motivating factor.

Boy don't I know it. One of my collegues says I should get a tattoo on my hip of a coin slot because when push comes to shove I just grin and state the phrase "coin-operated"

I'm actually a graphic designer, but in my geographic location job pickings are slim and I don't think I will ever see a salary over 30k again. Sad, sad thing after over 4 years experience and a couple degrees. I do retouch work on the side and the pageant work is plentiful. I have found sleep is not an option when there is money to be made.

BTW, I think your work is going to the dogs.... ::grinz:: Sorry couldn't help it. Seriously sounds like some excrutiating fun though.

[happiegirl]

Would anyone be willing to tell me how they add eyelashes on these pageant photos?

Also I don't know if any of you are aware of this but most photographers charge around 150$ for pageant photo retouching.

[grafx]

Yup, I know how much they charge, but most retouchers do not charge that amount. The photographers do a mark up on the services. I don't mind, they bring the business in and do all correspondence and printing. As for pageant eyelashes, you just have to practice those drawing skills

Afterthought:
Another reason I do not mind their mark ups is that they own the copyrights to the photos. It is their priviledge to charge what they feel is fair. You cannot legally retouch, alter, enhance, copy etc a photo unless you have a signed release or if the photo is old enough to be in public domain. Copyright is not something to be messed with.

[happiegirl]

I am aware of the copyright laws and I agree with you. I am thinking of trying to take photos of my daughter myself. I'm looking in to buying a Nikon D70. I have taken some photo classes at the University of New Mexico, which has one of the top photo schools in the US. I have tried to do the retouching myself and I give up! I just don't get Photoshop I guess. I just don't have the touch. Do you work exclusively for your photographer or do you do work for others?

[grafx]

I work for as many as I can handle
I have two pro's and one amateur. I've had a couple bites here lately for possible others. Luckily, I've gotten fast at them. It used to take me 2-3 hrs for one retouch. I've streamlined my techniques and have it down to an hour each (providing massive "surgery" isn't needed)

[dslinger]

Very interesting conversation!

Of course, those here have a unique perspective on photo retouching since we are aware of the mechanics. I can spot the digital manipulation on magazine covers at the grocery store right away. For instance, making that 98-pound model appear to have cleavage, if she hasn't already been surgically altered.

The concept of online beauty contests blows my mind. I guess I am naive- I've not been aware of these. My first thought was: what's the point? I would think the prize should go to the photographer and digital manipulator rather than the contestant. Hmmm....maybe we should have our own digital beauty contest right here. Take features from several different models and "paste" them together to form a beauty "contestant".

[grafx]

Originally Posted by dslinger

Hmmm....maybe we should have our own digital beauty contest right here. Take features from several different models and "paste" them together to form a beauty "contestant".

That would be a fun idea for a challenge so long as no one is offended. I love manipulating images. We would need to come up with categories besides just beauty though. Interesting...very interesting

[xlntmom@bellsou]

I am taking photos of my daughter for the Miss Photogenic Competition at her middle school. I am very good at using PSP, but I'm not sure how much, or if I should retouch my daughter's photos at all. Do you have any tips? Do you have a web page with examples that you have done. Some of these girls go to a professional photog. who does hair, makeup, clothing & jewelry and then takes prof. pictures, then retouches them. It feels like there is a club for this sort of thing that I'm not in and I don't know the rules. I don't want to go over the top, just want to know what the "rules" are. My daughter is 11. Thanks, xlntmom@bellsouth.net