i think that I got the port issue, b/c i just can't log in to my router setup...
it give's me invalid user/pass whe i try to log in (user :admin and nothing for pass)...
However i find out about this very easy to setup and completely free Logmein
www.logmein.com, will use this during my holiday, and go to cable interenet with static IP, afterwards...
this will solve alot of my issues....
Thanks a lot...