Ziaphra, if you have access to the code (php or pearl) you must change in the mail file with your personal data, e.g.
ziaphra@ziaphra.com... The code could be <? php @mail("ziaphra@ziaphra.com", "test","testing"); print "ok";?> but before you must have a form e.g. mail.html where the user post his name, phone, mail address etc. He send his informations to the mail.php and after, informations are send to a feedback form to return a few words to the user. I think the mail.html isn't your problem but in mail.php you must insert your mail address. I hope you understand that I have to say! Regards.